“Training Your Mind for Success: The Google Engineer's Guide to Emotional Intelligence”
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Title: Search Inside Yourself
Author: Chade-Meng Tan
Category: Mindfulness & Wellbeing, Career Growth, Motivation & Self-Improvement
What's a Google engineer doing writing a book about mindfulness? Chade-Meng Tan, one of Google's earliest engineers, argues that emotional intelligence is trainable and key to success. In this episode, we break down his practical mindfulness-based program, from attention training to empathy and optimism, with real-life tips you can use today.
We walk through the four pillars of Tan's program: self-awareness, self-management, empathy, and learned optimism. You'll learn how to become the observer of your thoughts, the SBNRR method for handling difficult emotions, the three types of empathy, and how to train optimism by disputing pessimistic thoughts. We also cover his formula for giving feedback without triggering defensiveness.
If you've ever felt at the mercy of your emotions or wanted to improve your relationships at work and home, this episode gives you a clear, science-backed path. The takeaway: emotional intelligence is not a fixed trait—it's a skill you can train, starting with paying attention to your own mind.
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00:00Attention as the Foundation01:08Self-Awareness and the Observer01:47Self-Management and SBNRR02:30Empathy and Loving-Kindness03:23Learned Optimism and Feedback04:41Takeaway: Train Your Mind
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