“From Doer to Leader: Surviving Your First 90 Days as a Boss”
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Title: What to Do When You Become the Boss
Author: Bob Selden
Category: Personal Growth, Leadership & Team Building, Decision-Making & Critical Thinking, Learning & Education
Why do so many brilliant individual contributors become mediocre managers? Sam and Sophie open with the uncomfortable answer: the skills that got you promoted are the opposite of the skills you need to lead. You were excellent at the craft, but now your job is to create the conditions for other people to excel.
They walk through Bob Selden's tactical ninety-day roadmap, starting with a personal audit before you take the chair. Then comes the listening tour — meeting one-on-one with every direct report, peer, and stakeholder, asking what's working, what's not, and what they'd change. They dig into the three-part one-on-one meeting agenda, how to handle former peers who now report to you, and a feedback framework that is specific, timely, and behavioral. There's also delegation with a decision matrix, a team charter, and the counterintuitive move of managing your boss.
If you're stepping into your first management role — or you've been in it for a year and still feel like you're drowning — this episode gives you a concrete playbook. The takeaway: great management is a set of learnable skills, not an innate personality trait. And the first skill is intentional listening. If you don't listen first, nothing else works.
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00:00The Promotion Trap01:20Start With a Listening Tour02:12The One-on-One Meeting Agenda03:15When Former Peers Become Direct Reports04:15Delegation and the Decision Matrix05:18Managing Up and Building a Self-Reliant Team
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